Divorce and Child Custody in South Carolina: What Happens to the Children

Divorce and Child Custody in South Carolina: What Happens to the Children

By Jessica Means, Hall & Means, LLC

When a South Carolina divorce involves minor children, custody is decided separately from the divorce itself — under the best-interests standard of SC Code § 63-15-230 and the factors in § 63-15-240(B), not the equitable-distribution rules that divide property. At Hall & Means in Charleston, we help parents understand how these two tracks interact. Custody is one part of a larger case. For the full picture of how a South Carolina divorce proceeds, see our guide to divorce in Charleston, SC.

Divorce and Child Custody in South Carolina Are Governed by Different Statutes

The divorce itself—who gets what property, whether alimony is awarded, and on what grounds the marriage is dissolved—is governed by SC Code Title 20. Custody and child support are governed by SC Code Title 63 (the Children’s Code). The Family Court handles both in the same proceeding, but the legal standards are entirely separate. A spouse’s fault in the marriage (adultery, for example) can affect alimony; it has no automatic effect on custody. The custody analysis is focused entirely on what arrangement serves the child’s best interests going forward.

Parents who have already agreed on custody, visitation and support may not need a contested case at all; see what filing for divorce in Charleston County involves. It also helps to know which Family Court hears your case before you file — Summerville families in particular can land in any of three counties.

Legal Custody vs. Physical Custody: The Basic Framework

South Carolina distinguishes between two types of custody, and both must be resolved in every divorce involving minor children:

How the Family Court Decides: The Best-Interests Standard

Under SC Code § 63-15-230, the Family Court’s custody analysis is guided entirely by the child’s best interests. The court weighs every relevant circumstance, including the factors discussed at length in our guide on child custody rights in South Carolina. In a divorce context, a few dynamics deserve particular attention:

The temporary order matters more than most people expect

The first formal custody arrangement in a divorce is the temporary order entered at the temporary relief hearing; how quickly that hearing is scheduled depends on the county’s docket. Stability and continuity for the child are part of the statutory best-interest analysis, so an interim arrangement that is serving the child well becomes part of the picture the court weighs at the final hearing. The parent who arrives at the temporary hearing with a detailed parenting plan (required of each parent at all contested temporary custody hearings under § 63-15-220), documented evidence of primary-caregiver history, and a stable living situation gives the court a concrete, child-focused record — far better than treating the temporary hearing as a warm-up for the main event. If you want representation at that hearing, our Charleston child custody attorneys page explains how we prepare one.

Marital fault does not always transfer to custody

One spouse’s adultery does not automatically give the other primary custody, and the inverse is equally true. Courts focus on the parenting relationship, not the marital relationship. The exception is when the adulterous relationship directly affects the child—for example, introducing a new partner into the home in ways that disrupt the child’s stability. That parenting decision is relevant to custody; the fact of adultery standing alone is not.

Domestic violence changes the analysis significantly

SC Code § 63-15-240(B) expressly includes among the custody factors whether either parent has perpetrated domestic violence or child abuse and the effect of that conduct on the child. If domestic violence is part of your situation, protective relief may be available under the Protection from Domestic Abuse Act (SC Code Title 20, Chapter 4), and emergency custody relief may also be an option — see our guide on emergency custody orders in Charleston. If anyone is in immediate danger, call 911; a licensed South Carolina family-law attorney can help you evaluate which filings fit your facts.

Child Support During and After Divorce

Child support is calculated using the Income Shares Model under SC Code § 63-17-470, regardless of whether the parents are divorcing, were never married, or are modifying an existing order. The model combines both parents’ gross incomes to determine a combined support obligation, then allocates that obligation proportionally based on each parent’s share of the combined income.

In a divorce where one parent earns significantly more than the other, child support obligations can be substantial. Our detailed guide on how South Carolina child support is calculated walks through the Income Shares worksheets and the 109-overnight threshold that determines which worksheet applies. Read that guide before your temporary hearing—knowing how the calculation works in advance helps you evaluate settlement proposals accurately.

The Required Parenting Plan: What It Must Cover

Under SC Code § 63-15-220, at all contested temporary custody hearings each parent must prepare, file, and submit a proposed parenting plan covering parenting time and major decision-making. A thorough plan addresses:

Can Custody Be Changed After the Divorce?

Yes, but the bar is intentionally high. Under South Carolina case law, a parent seeking modification must show a substantial change in circumstances affecting the child’s welfare since the last order (the best-interest factors in § 63-15-240(B) then guide the analysis). Courts resist frequent revisiting of custody orders to protect children from instability. Circumstances of the kind that may support a modification request are discussed in our custody rights guide, including relocation, documented substance abuse in the other household, and changes in the child’s developmental needs — but whether any of them justifies a change always depends on the specific facts.

How the Marital Home and Child Custody Intersect

In equitable apportionment of the marital home, two of the 15 factors under SC Code § 20-3-620(B) intersect directly with custody: the desirability of awarding the family home — or the right to live in it for reasonable periods — to the spouse with custody of the children, and the child custody arrangements themselves. A custodial parent can make an equitable argument for remaining in the marital home—particularly if the children are enrolled in a school near the home or have established community roots. In appropriate cases a court may award the custodial parent occupancy of the home for a period while both parents retain their equity interest; whether that fits a given case is fact-specific.

For this arrangement to work, the party occupying the home is typically required to pay the mortgage, taxes, and insurance; the equity split happens at sale. Make sure the divorce decree spells out these responsibilities clearly—ambiguity in deferred-sale provisions is a frequent source of post-divorce litigation.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does one parent automatically get primary custody in a South Carolina divorce?

No. SC Code § 63-5-30 gives married parents equal standing, and courts decide based on the child’s best interest under § 63-15-230, applying the § 63-15-240(B) factors — including each parent’s involvement in day-to-day caregiving, the stability of each home, and each parent’s support of the child’s relationship with the other parent. Who did the bulk of the day-to-day child-rearing is a factual question the record answers, not a legal presumption.

Can my spouse use my filing for divorce against me in the custody case?

No. The fact that you initiated the divorce proceedings has no bearing on the custody analysis. Courts are concerned with the ongoing parenting relationship, not who filed the divorce complaint.

What happens if my spouse and I cannot agree on a parenting plan?

The Family Court enters its own parenting order. Both parties submit proposed plans; the judge selects the arrangement that best serves the child’s interests, drawing from either plan or drafting an entirely different arrangement. In high-conflict cases, the court may appoint a Guardian ad Litem to independently assess and recommend a custody arrangement to the court.

How does moving out of the marital home affect custody?

Moving out does not forfeit your custody rights—rights are determined by court order, not by who lives in the marital home. However, if you move out and leave the children with your spouse before a custody order is in place, that arrangement may become the de facto standard the court uses as a starting point for the temporary order. If you plan to leave the marital home and want primary custody, consult with an attorney before moving—the sequence matters.

This article draws together topics covered in detail throughout the Hall & Means Family Law Hub. For the complete picture, also read:

Request a Confidential Consultation With a Charleston Family Law Attorney

Every family’s situation is different, and the right next step depends on your facts. If you would like to talk through your situation confidentially and without obligation, call Hall & Means at (843) 377-1341 or inquire online. We will listen first, then explain your options in plain language.

Hall & Means, LLC serves clients in Charleston and the South Carolina Lowcountry, including Charleston County in the 9th Judicial Circuit and neighboring Dorchester County in the 1st Judicial Circuit. The legal framework discussed here applies statewide in South Carolina.


About the Author

Jessica Means is a partner at Hall & Means, LLC who represents clients in divorce, custody, and family law matters, with a particular focus on cases involving children. A former lay Guardian ad Litem, she contributed more than 100 pro bono hours in DSS abuse and neglect matters in Charleston and Dorchester counties — experience that complements her work as a litigator.

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This article is general legal information, not legal advice, and does not create an attorney-client relationship. South Carolina law changes and every case turns on its specific facts. Consult a licensed South Carolina family-law attorney about your situation. (Attorney advertising — SC RPC 7.1.)

Alimony in South Carolina: Types, Qualifications, and How Courts Decide

Alimony in South Carolina: Types, Qualifications, and How Courts Decide

By Mary Ann Hall, Hall & Means, LLC

Alimony in South Carolina is not automatic — whether you qualify, how much, and for how long depends on the multi-factor analysis SC Code § 20-3-130 directs the Family Court to perform. At Hall & Means in Charleston, we help clients understand which type of alimony fits their situation before they walk into settlement negotiations or a final hearing.

The Main Types of Alimony in South Carolina

SC Code § 20-3-130(B) authorizes several forms of spousal support — periodic, lump-sum, rehabilitative, and reimbursement alimony, plus separate maintenance and support and other forms the court may order. Four types come up most often:

1. Permanent Periodic Alimony

Regular ongoing payments with no fixed end date. Periodic alimony generally terminates on the remarriage or continued cohabitation of the supported spouse, or the death of either spouse, and South Carolina’s continued-cohabitation rule can terminate it as well (see below). “Permanent” is informal shorthand — this is periodic alimony, and it is not permanent in the sense that it can never change: either party can move to modify or terminate it if circumstances change substantially. It is more common after long marriages where one spouse has been out of the workforce for an extended period and the income disparity between the parties is significant.

2. Rehabilitative Alimony

Time-limited support designed to help the supported spouse become self-sufficient. Typically awarded when the recipient needs to complete education or job training to re-enter the workforce at a sustainable income level. The court sets a specific end date based on a realistic rehabilitation plan. Under SC Code § 20-3-130(B)(3), rehabilitative alimony can also be modified based on unforeseen events that frustrate the supported spouse’s good-faith efforts to become self-supporting, or that affect the paying spouse’s ability to pay — it is not modified simply because things went faster or slower than planned.

Example: a parent who left a nursing career to raise children might seek rehabilitative alimony while completing a recertification program, after which they would be expected to return toward their prior income level.

3. Reimbursement Alimony

A payment (lump sum or periodic) to compensate one spouse for supporting the other through a degree or professional licensure program during the marriage, where the marriage ends before the supporting spouse could benefit from the financial returns of that investment. If you worked and paid for your spouse’s medical school, law school, or MBA while they were a student, reimbursement alimony may be appropriate. It is less commonly awarded than permanent or rehabilitative alimony but can be significant in the right case.

4. Lump-Sum Alimony

A fixed total amount paid either in one payment or in installments, representing the entire alimony obligation. Unlike periodic alimony, lump-sum alimony does not terminate on remarriage or cohabitation—once the full amount is paid, the obligation is discharged. Courts use it to achieve finality, particularly when the paying spouse’s income is irregular, when there is concern about future enforcement, or when both parties prefer a clean break over an indefinite ongoing obligation.

Who Qualifies for Alimony in South Carolina?

Alimony is available to either spouse. It is not gendered under South Carolina law. Whether you qualify depends on the 13-factor analysis in § 20-3-130(C):

  1. Duration of the marriage, together with the ages of the parties at the time of the marriage and at the time of the divorce
  2. Physical and emotional condition of each spouse
  3. Educational background of each spouse, together with the need for additional training or education to achieve that spouse’s income potential
  4. Employment history and earning potential of each spouse
  5. Standard of living established during the marriage
  6. Current and reasonably anticipated earnings of both spouses
  7. Current and reasonably anticipated expenses and needs of both spouses
  8. Marital and nonmarital properties of the parties, including those apportioned in the divorce
  9. Custody of the children — particularly where circumstances make it appropriate that the custodian not be required to work outside the home or that employment be limited
  10. Marital misconduct or fault of either or both spouses — including the conditional adultery bar discussed below
  11. Tax consequences resulting from the form of support awarded
  12. Existence and extent of any support obligation from a prior marriage
  13. Other factors the court considers relevant

The Adultery Bar: The Rule That Catches Many People Off Guard

SC Code § 20-3-130(A) contains one of the most consequential rules in South Carolina family law — and it is conditional on timing. No alimony may be awarded to a spouse who commits adultery before the earliest of two cutoff events. When the bar applies, it applies regardless of the length of the marriage, the income disparity, or otherwise compelling circumstances for support.

The two statutory cutoff events are:

The practical trap is the separation period: adultery after the parties separate but before one of the two cutoff events can still trigger the bar — and many people do not realize that when they begin new relationships during the separation year. Adultery after the cutoff, by contrast, does not bar alimony. If you are separated and considering a new relationship, consult with your attorney first; the timing analysis is precise and the consequences can be severe.

Conversely, if your spouse committed adultery, that fact does not automatically entitle you to alimony — but if the adultery occurred before the statutory cutoff and can be proven, it bars them from receiving alimony from you. Marital misconduct is also one of the § 20-3-130(C) factors the court weighs in any alimony analysis.

Cohabitation: When Alimony Terminates

Periodic alimony in South Carolina generally terminates on the remarriage or continued cohabitation of the supported spouse, or the death of either spouse — the state’s continued-cohabitation rule is discussed below. Under S.C. Code § 20-3-150, residing with a romantic partner for 90 or more consecutive days can constitute continued cohabitation. Termination is not self-executing: the paying spouse must return to court and prove it. A new roommate or a dating relationship that does not rise to continued cohabitation does not trigger termination.

The paying spouse bears the burden of proving continued cohabitation, and courts look at the duration and nature of the relationship — including whether the couple periodically separates in an attempt to circumvent the rule.

How Much Alimony Will the Court Award?

Unlike child support, South Carolina has no formula or worksheet for calculating alimony. The amount is discretionary and fact-specific, guided by the 13 statutory factors above — the parties’ incomes and expenses, the standard of living during the marriage, the duration of the marriage, and the rest. Because no two cases weigh the factors identically, be wary of any rule of thumb, percentage, or predicted number you read online: the honest answer is that the amount depends on your facts, the evidence presented, and the judge.

What we can do in a confidential consultation is walk through the factors with your actual financial declarations and talk candidly about how they cut in your situation — without promising a number no one can promise.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does alimony last in South Carolina?

It depends on the type awarded. Periodic alimony generally continues until either spouse dies or the recipient remarries, and continued cohabitation (90 or more consecutive days with a romantic partner, § 20-3-150) can end it. Rehabilitative alimony has a set end date. Lump-sum alimony ends when the total amount is paid. Duration of the marriage is one of the statutory factors the court weighs — the statute sets no fixed year threshold for any type of alimony.

Can alimony be modified after the divorce?

Yes, but the standard differs by type. Periodic alimony can be modified based on a substantial change in circumstances—a significant change in either party’s income, loss of employment, retirement, or disability. Rehabilitative alimony has a narrower standard under § 20-3-130(B)(3): modification requires an unforeseen event that frustrates the supported spouse’s good-faith rehabilitation efforts or the paying spouse’s ability to pay. Lump-sum and reimbursement alimony are generally not modifiable once set.

Is alimony taxable income in South Carolina?

Tax treatment depends on federal law and on when your agreement was executed, and it can materially affect negotiation strategy — in fact, tax consequences are one of the § 20-3-130(C) factors the court itself considers. Tax questions are outside the scope of this article: ask a tax professional, alongside your family-law attorney, how an award would be treated in your specific situation.

Can I get alimony if I was married for only a few years?

Possibly. Alimony is available to either spouse, and the statute sets no minimum marriage length — but duration of the marriage is one of the factors the court weighs, and it matters. In shorter marriages, time-limited rehabilitative alimony for a specific transition period is often a more realistic request than long-term periodic support, though every case turns on its own facts.

For a complete picture of the divorce process, see our guides on equitable distribution in South Carolina, protecting yourself financially before filing, and grounds for divorce in South Carolina.

Request a Confidential Consultation With a Charleston Family Law Attorney

Every family’s situation is different, and the right next step depends on your facts. If you would like to talk through your situation confidentially and without obligation, call Hall & Means at (843) 377-1341 or inquire online. We will listen first, then explain your options in plain language.

Hall & Means, LLC serves clients in Charleston and the South Carolina Lowcountry, including Charleston County in the 9th Judicial Circuit and neighboring Dorchester County in the 1st Judicial Circuit. The legal framework discussed here applies statewide in South Carolina.


About the Author

Mary Ann Hall is a founding partner at Hall & Means, LLC with more than 20 years of family-law experience. She is licensed to practice in South Carolina and has built her career advocating for clients and their rights in divorce, custody, alimony, and family law proceedings throughout the Lowcountry.

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This article is general legal information, not legal advice, and does not create an attorney-client relationship. South Carolina law changes and every case turns on its specific facts. Consult a licensed South Carolina family-law attorney about your situation. (Attorney advertising — SC RPC 7.1.)

Equitable Distribution in South Carolina: Dividing Marital Property

Equitable Distribution in South Carolina: Dividing Marital Property

By Jessica Means, Hall & Means, LLC

Equitable distribution in South Carolina means the Family Court divides the marital estate fairly, which may or may not be equally, under the 15 factors in S.C. Code § 20-3-620(B) — and only on the request of either party in the pleadings. South Carolina is not a community-property state, and there is no 50/50 presumption. Hall & Means works these cases from our Charleston office.

This guide covers what the Family Court can divide, when it identifies and values what you own, how separate property loses that status, and how the assets that cause the most argument are treated.

South Carolina Is an Equitable Distribution State, Not a Community Property State

South Carolina is not a community-property state; it uses equitable apportionment, which may or may not be equal. The IRS lists nine community-property states — Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington and Wisconsin — and South Carolina is not among them. Here the court begins with no presumed split: it weighs the statutory factors and arrives at what it considers equitable, which may or may not be equal. Equal division is an approved starting point in a long-term marriage, not a presumption.

Does “Equitable” Mean Equal in South Carolina?

Not automatically. In Doe v. Doe, 370 S.C. 206, 634 S.E.2d 51 (Ct. App. 2006), the Court of Appeals wrote that “there is certainly no recognized presumption in favor of a fifty-fifty division,” while approving equal division as “an appropriate starting point” in a long-term marriage. A starting point is not a rule, and the Supreme Court has twice reversed appellate courts for treating it as one: Dawkins v. Dawkins, 386 S.C. 169, 687 S.E.2d 52 (2010), warned the guidance had “mutated into a mandatory division,” and Crossland v. Crossland, 408 S.C. 443, 759 S.E.2d 419 (2014), held that greater direct financial contribution “is but one of many factors.”

Fault is weighed, but it is not a punishment: South Carolina law “expressly disallow[s] fault as a penalty,” and Doe reversed a 70/30 division even though the wife had carried on a twenty-year affair. Dissipation has its own threshold — there must be “some evidence of willful misconduct, bad faith, intention to dissipate marital assets, or the like” before a court adjusts the award for it. Spending marital money foolishly, or investing it badly, does not clear that bar.

What Is Marital Property in South Carolina?

Under S.C. Code § 20-3-630, marital property is all real and personal property acquired during the marriage and owned as of the date of filing or commencement of marital litigation — “regardless of how legal title is held.” Marital debt is divided under the same factors. The marital assets subject to division include:

The key principle: whose name is on the title does not determine whether an asset is marital property. A house deeded to one spouse alone is still marital if it was bought with marital funds, and a retirement account in one name holds marital property to the extent it was funded during the marriage.

When Is Property Identified, and When Is It Valued?

These are two different dates. Identification is fixed at filing: § 20-3-630(A) reaches property owned “as of the date of filing or commencement of marital litigation,” and § 20-3-610 vests each spouse’s right at that moment. Valuation is separate. In Burch v. Burch, 395 S.C. 318, 717 S.E.2d 757 (2011), the Supreme Court confirmed marital property “is generally valued at the divorce filing date” and formally adopted the active/passive distinction: passive change is movement caused by inflation or market forces “beyond the control of either spouse,” active change comes from a spouse’s “financial or managerial contributions.” Active change is usually valued at filing, passive change may be valued later, and Burch puts “the burden of proof… on the party seeking a deviation.” The date you separated does not set value in South Carolina.

What Is Separate Property? (Excluded from Equitable Distribution)

SC Code § 20-3-630 excludes the following from equitable distribution:

The statute is more precise than that summary in three places. Exclusion (2) does not stop at the wedding date — it also covers property acquired after the earliest of a pendente lite order, the formal signing of a written property or marital settlement agreement, or entry of a permanent order of separate maintenance and support or a permanent order approving a property or marital settlement agreement. Exclusion (4) is property “excluded by written contract of the parties,” and the statute says a written contract “includes any antenuptial agreement,” presumptively fair and equitable only where it was voluntarily executed, both parties were separately represented by counsel, and there was full financial disclosure as to income, debts and assets — our Charleston prenuptial agreement page covers how one is tested. Exclusion (5) protects an increase in the value of nonmarital property except where it “resulted directly or indirectly from efforts of the other spouse during marriage.”

One sentence gets dropped almost everywhere: “Interspousal gifts of property, including gifts of property from one spouse to the other made indirectly by way of a third party, are marital property which is subject to division.” The exclusion is for gifts from someone other than your spouse. Note also what the list does not contain. There are five exclusions, the written contract being the fourth of them, and that is all. Personal-injury recoveries and pensions are not on it, and a professional degree is excluded by case law rather than by the statute. For what is genuinely nonmarital, § 20-3-630(B) is a hard limit: “[t]he court does not have jurisdiction or authority to apportion nonmarital property.”

How Does Separate Property Become Marital Property? Transmutation

Separate property can lose its protected status through transmutation, and South Carolina recognizes three routes: property that “becomes so commingled with marital property that it is no longer traceable,” property that “is titled jointly,” or property “used by the parties in support of the marriage or in some other way that establishes the parties’ intent to make it marital property” (Wilburn v. Wilburn, 403 S.C. 372, 743 S.E.2d 734 (2013)). It turns on intent, proved by “objective evidence showing that, during the marriage, the parties themselves regarded the property as the common property of the marriage.” Evidence courts look at includes:

The burden runs in two steps, and the second is usually left out: a party claiming an equitable interest “bears the burden of proving the property is marital,” and once they do, “the burden shifts to the other spouse to present evidence to establish the property’s nonmarital character.” There is no clear-and-convincing standard for transmutation here. Several things also do not transmute anything on their own — “the mere use of separate property to support the marriage” without evidence of intent, contributions of time and labor, and “the mere use of income from nonmarital assets.”

Appreciation during the marriage can create a marital component too: § 20-3-630(A)(5) protects the increase except to the extent it resulted from the other spouse’s efforts. Tracing separates the two, and it is accounting work — statements, deeds, closing files and deposit histories, often with a forensic accountant. Tracing issues of this kind come up in the matters our Charleston high-asset divorce attorneys handle.

What is a “special equity,” and when does it matter?

Two rules share the phrase. Where property stayed nonmarital, the other spouse may still hold an interest in appreciation they helped cause — “a spouse has an equitable interest in appreciation of property to which she contributed during the marriage, even if the property is nonmarital” (Murray v. Murray, 312 S.C. 154, 439 S.E.2d 312 (Ct. App. 1993)). Where an inheritance did transmute, Dawkins overruled the practice of subtracting it off the top before dividing the rest; it is instead “a contribution… taken into account in determining the percentage of the marital estate” the inheriting spouse receives.

The 15 Equitable Distribution Factors Under § 20-3-620(B)

When the parties cannot agree, § 20-3-620(B) directs the court to “give weight in such proportion as it finds appropriate to all of the following factors”:

  1. Duration of the marriage and the parties’ ages
  2. Marital misconduct or fault, whether or not used as a ground for the divorce, but only where it affected the parties’ economic circumstances or contributed to the breakup
  3. Value of the marital property, inside or outside South Carolina, and each spouse’s contribution to acquiring, preserving, depreciating or appreciating it — including as homemaker, weighing the quality of that contribution as well as its existence
  4. Income of each spouse — earnings, earning potential, and the opportunity to acquire capital assets in future
  5. Physical and emotional health of each spouse
  6. Need for additional training or education in order to achieve that spouse’s income potential
  7. Nonmarital property of each spouse
  8. The existence or nonexistence of vested retirement benefits
  9. Whether alimony has been awarded
  10. Desirability of awarding the family home, or the right to live in it for reasonable periods, to the spouse with custody of the children
  11. Tax consequences of the proposed distribution
  12. Support obligations from a prior marriage
  13. Liens and encumbrances on the marital property, which themselves must be equitably divided, and other debts incurred during the marriage
  14. Child custody arrangements and obligations at the time of the order
  15. Any other relevant factor the court expressly enumerates in its order

Two cautions. Factor 2 has a shut-off built in: personal conduct after the earliest of a pendente lite order, the formal signing of a written property or marital settlement agreement, or entry of a permanent order of separate maintenance and support or approving such an agreement is not considered under that factor at all — a triad of three events, unlike the alimony cutoff in § 20-3-130(A), which turns on two. Factor 8 is narrower than it looks: vested benefits are a factor to weigh, not the rule deciding what is marital, and South Carolina treats both vested and nonvested retirement benefits earned during the marriage as marital. Judges have broad discretion, outcomes vary from case to case, and no particular division is guaranteed.

How Are Businesses, Stock Options, Injury Settlements and Debts Handled?

A business built during the marriage is marital, but its goodwill splits in two — and the leading case is a Charleston County one. Moore v. Moore, 414 S.C. 490, 779 S.E.2d 533 (2015), recognized “enterprise goodwill as marital property subject to equitable division” while holding that “personal goodwill, which follows the owner and is entirely dependent on the owner’s personal or professional services and skills, is not.” The test is one question: “can the business generate revenue from continued patronage without the current owner’s participation?”

AssetSouth Carolina rule
Business goodwillEnterprise goodwill is marital; personal goodwill is not, and the spouse arguing goodwill belongs in the estate must prove it is enterprise goodwill. Bostick v. Bostick, Op. No. 28226 (S.C. 2024), rejected “the notion that personal goodwill is present only when one spouse remains in the business”; Clark v. Clark, 430 S.C. 167, 843 S.E.2d 498 (2020), holds that whether a marketability or lack-of-control discount applies is “determined on a case-by-case basis.” Under § 20-3-640(3) the court may appoint experts to value property and contributions and assess the cost against “any or all parties to the action”
Stock options and deferred compensationVested and nonvested options are “earned when granted”; granted during the marriage, they are marital. What matters “is not when the options mature, but when the options are earned.” Options sold before the filing date are generally not marital — the sale “negates the ownership prong” — though their proceeds can still be marital where the other spouse proves fraud in the sale by clear and convincing evidence. Shorb v. Shorb, 372 S.C. 623, 643 S.E.2d 124 (Ct. App. 2007)
A professional degree or licenseNot divisible — “a personal intellectual attainment, not marital property subject to equitable distribution.” The remedy is statutory: § 20-3-130(B)(4) reimbursement alimony. Helm v. Helm, 289 S.C. 169, 345 S.E.2d 720 (1986)
Personal-injury recoveriesNot one of the five statutory exclusions, despite what much published content says — “proceeds of a personal injury settlement acquired during the marriage are marital property subject to the family court’s jurisdiction,” and South Carolina rejected splitting an award into pain-and-suffering and lost-wage parts. Marsh v. Marsh, 313 S.C. 42, 437 S.E.2d 34 (1993). The ordinary rule then does the work: a recovery acquired during the marriage and owned at filing is marital; one acquired after the § 20-3-630(A)(2) cutoff is not
DebtA marital debt is one “incurred for the joint benefit of the parties regardless of whether the parties are legally liable,” and it “must be specifically identified and apportioned.” Before filing, the spouse calling a debt nonmarital carries the burden; after filing, the spouse calling it marital does. Wooten v. Wooten, 364 S.C. 532, 615 S.E.2d 98 (2005)

The Family Home: Keeping It or Selling It

The marital home is often the largest single asset. Two routes are worth working through before you negotiate, and the court is not limited to them:

  1. One spouse buys out the other, using marital funds, a refinance, or an offset against other assets — one parent keeps the house, the other keeps the retirement account. The mortgage still has to be addressed: refinancing, a lender-approved assumption or release, or another court-approved arrangement. A divorce decree alone does not remove a name from a mortgage or change who the lender holds responsible.
  2. The home is sold and the proceeds split — most practical when neither party can carry the mortgage alone.

A deferred sale, where the custodial parent stays in the home for a period before it is sold, is possible in some circumstances: the desirability of awarding the family home, or the right to live in it for reasonable periods, is itself one of the § 20-3-620(B) factors. It is a factor about desirability, not a rule that the parent with custody gets the house. What the court can do is fact-specific — transfer, an ordered sale, a monetary offset under § 20-3-660(B), or a right of occupancy for reasonable periods. Financing is the practical constraint, so confirm before the hearing whether you can qualify for a refinance in your name only at current rates.

The court has real tools to make a real-estate award stick. Under § 20-3-660(A) it can order a party to execute a deed and, if that party refuses, direct the clerk of court in the county where the property sits to execute it instead — performance by the clerk “is as effective as the performance of the party would have been.” It may also order a public or private sale.

Dividing Retirement Accounts: QDROs and Related Orders

Retirement benefits earned during the marriage and owned at filing are marital property, vested and nonvested alike. Dividing them takes a plan-specific order or transfer instrument, and that instrument is not the same for every plan — some require a separate order directing the plan to pay a share, while an IRA moves under the decree itself. A Qualified Domestic Relations Order is not a universal tool. Which instrument applies depends on the particular plan and the law governing it, so that has to be confirmed before anything is drafted. The regimes below are the ones that come up most often in South Carolina cases; they are examples, not a complete list.

Account typeThe right instrumentAuthority
A private-employer plan covered by ERISA — a 401(k), and many 403(b) and pension plansQualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO)29 U.S.C. § 1056(d)(3)
South Carolina public pension — SCRS, PORS, Judges & Solicitors, General AssemblyA South Carolina QDRO under a separate state statute, administered by PEBAS.C. Code Title 9, Chapter 18
IRAThe divorce decree or a written instrument incident to it — no QDROIRS Publication 504
Military retired payA military pension division order10 U.S.C. § 1408 (USFSPA)
Federal Thrift Savings PlanA Retirement Benefits Court Order (RBCO) — never a QDRO5 C.F.R. pt. 1653

The South Carolina public-pension rules are the ones most often missed. Title 9, Chapter 18 lets an order reach only a retirement benefit, a withdrawal or refund of contributions, a disability benefit or a death benefit. It may not require payment to the former spouse before the member retires or withdraws contributions, and it may not require the member to retire, resign or withdraw. PEBA’s administrator, not the family court, has “exclusive authority to determine whether or not a domestic relations order is a qualified domestic relations order,” with appeals to the Administrative Law Court — and PEBA cannot be joined as a party to the divorce.

Two situations get their own pages: military retired pay and the Thrift Savings Plan, which follow federal rules on top of the South Carolina statute (see how a military pension is divided in South Carolina), and marital businesses or stock-based compensation, which we cover for Mount Pleasant divorce clients. Alimony is the other half of the financial picture — our Charleston alimony attorneys page covers it.

What Does the Court Process Look Like, From Filing to a Final Order?

It starts with a pleading: under § 20-3-620(A) the court apportions marital property “upon request by either party in the pleadings,” so it is not automatic. Then comes disclosure. Family Court Rule 20 requires a current Financial Declaration, form SCCA 430, from every party in a domestic action where a party’s financial condition is at issue, filed and served “prior to or at the first hearing, or no later than 45 days after the complaint is served, whichever occurs first,” with sanctions available for willful noncompliance. The Financial Declaration is the starting point for identifying income, expenses, assets and debts.

A temporary hearing does not divide anything — temporary relief runs for the period the case is pending, and apportionment is a final-order event. Most contested family issues also go to mediation, which South Carolina’s ADR Rule 3(a) applies to contested issues in family court actions, subject to the categories the rule exempts and a case-specific exemption for good cause. Family Court Rule 26 requires the order to carry “specific findings of fact and conclusions of law” and to issue within 30 days of the hearing absent exceptional circumstances. Two features matter in advance: the division is final under § 20-3-620(C), “not subject to modification except by appeal or remand following proper appeal,” unlike child support and periodic alimony; and because each spouse’s right vests at filing, the claim survives a death mid-case (Seels v. Smalls, 437 S.C. 167, 877 S.E.2d 351 (2022), a Berkeley County case).

What Are the Tax Consequences of Dividing Property?

The general federal rule is favorable but narrow. Internal Revenue Code § 1041(a) provides that “[n]o gain or loss shall be recognized on a transfer of property… to a spouse, or… a former spouse, but only if the transfer is incident to the divorce.” The receiving spouse takes the transferor’s adjusted basis, so any tax consequence is deferred to a later disposition rather than erased — what is owed then depends on basis, sale price and any exclusion that applies. A transfer is incident to the divorce if it occurs within one year after the marriage ends or is related to its ending — and IRS Publication 504 warns that a transfer made more than six years afterward, or outside the divorce instrument, is presumed not related to it.

A QDRO transfer and an IRA transfer made under a decree are not taxable events; tax is owed on withdrawal. On the house, IRC § 121 allows an exclusion of up to $250,000 of gain ($500,000 on a joint return where the statute’s ownership and use conditions are met), and § 121(d)(3) adds a divorce rule: a spouse who moves out but stays on the title is treated as using the home as a principal residence while the other spouse has use of it under a divorce or separation instrument. South Carolina adds its own — under § 20-3-660(B) an equalizing monetary award “does not constitute a payment which is treated as ordinary income to the recipient.” None of this is tax advice; run your numbers past your CPA.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does it matter that the house is only in my spouse’s name?

No. If the home was purchased with marital funds during the marriage, it is marital property regardless of whose name is on the deed — S.C. Code § 20-3-630 reaches property acquired during the marriage “regardless of how legal title is held.” Titling can matter in the other direction, though: putting nonmarital property into joint names is one recognized route to transmutation.

What happens to a gift my spouse gave me during the marriage?

It is marital property. S.C. Code § 20-3-630(A) says so directly: “Interspousal gifts of property, including gifts of property from one spouse to the other made indirectly by way of a third party, are marital property which is subject to division.” The gift exclusion covers gifts from someone other than your spouse.

Is my inheritance safe in a South Carolina divorce?

An inheritance is nonmarital when it arrives, and the Family Court has no authority to apportion nonmarital property. It can lose that status through transmutation — commingled beyond tracing, retitled jointly, or used in a way showing the couple treated it as theirs. If it has transmuted, it counts as a contribution when the court sets each spouse’s percentage.

When is our property valued — the day we separated or the day of the hearing?

The filing date is the statutory default. Burch v. Burch (2011) confirms marital property “is generally valued at the divorce filing date” and places “the burden of proof… on the party seeking a deviation.” A later date can apply to passive change — movement caused by markets rather than by a spouse. The separation date does not set valuation here.

Can my spouse refuse to divide the retirement account they built during the marriage?

Not by refusing. Retirement benefits earned during the marriage and owned at filing are marital property, vested or not, and the court apportions them under the 15 factors. Contributions from before the marriage stay nonmarital while traceable and untransmuted, and a valid written contract can exclude property under § 20-3-630(A)(4). Where the court orders a split, the right instrument for that plan implements it.

My spouse spent marital money on an affair. Will the court make them pay it back?

Possibly, but there is a threshold first. South Carolina requires “some evidence of willful misconduct, bad faith, intention to dissipate marital assets, or the like” before a court adjusts the division. Spending marital funds foolishly, or investing them unprofitably, is not dissipation on its own. A spouse who removes or hides marital property in contemplation of divorce must account for it or have part of its value charged against their share.

What happens if my spouse dies before the case is finished?

The property claim does not die with them. Each spouse’s right in the marital property vests when the marital litigation is filed, under S.C. Code § 20-3-610. In Seels v. Smalls (2022), a Berkeley County case, the South Carolina Supreme Court held the Family Court properly retained jurisdiction to apportion marital property after a party died during the proceedings.

For more on what the divorce process looks like once you are ready to act, see our guide on how to file for divorce in Charleston. To understand what alimony options are available, see our guide on alimony in South Carolina, or read our overview of divorce representation in Charleston, SC.

Request a Confidential Consultation With a Charleston Family Law Attorney

Every family’s situation is different, and the right next step depends on your facts. If you would like to talk through your situation confidentially and without obligation, call Hall & Means at (843) 377-1341 or inquire online. We will listen first, then explain your options in plain language.

Hall & Means, LLC serves clients in Charleston and the South Carolina Lowcountry, including Charleston County in the 9th Judicial Circuit and neighboring Dorchester County in the 1st Judicial Circuit. The legal framework discussed here applies statewide in South Carolina.


About the Author

Jessica Means is a partner at Hall & Means, LLC who represents clients in divorce, custody, and family law matters, with a particular focus on cases involving children. A former lay Guardian ad Litem, she contributed more than 100 pro bono hours in DSS abuse and neglect matters in Charleston and Dorchester counties — experience that complements her family-law practice.

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This article is general legal information, not legal advice, and does not create an attorney-client relationship. South Carolina law changes and every case turns on its specific facts. Consult a licensed South Carolina family-law attorney about your situation. (Attorney advertising — SC RPC 7.1.)

Protecting Yourself Financially Before Filing for Divorce

Protecting Yourself Financially Before Filing for Divorce

By Mary Ann Hall, Hall & Means, LLC

Preparing financially for divorce means documenting the marital estate before you file — not hiding assets, which South Carolina courts take a dim view of under the equitable-distribution rules in SC Code §§ 20-3-620 and 20-3-630. At Hall & Means in Charleston, we help clients build that complete financial picture so they walk into Family Court prepared, not blindsided.

Why Financial Preparation Matters Before You File

South Carolina is an equitable distribution state under SC Code § 20-3-620, which means the court divides marital property in a way it considers fair—not necessarily 50/50. The court cannot divide what it does not know exists. If your spouse controls the finances and you file without knowing what accounts, assets, and debts are in the marital estate, you are negotiating blind. Preparation closes that information gap before your spouse has any incentive to minimize or conceal assets.

Additionally, divorce litigation is expensive. Between filing fees, attorney’s fees, forensic accountants, and temporary periods without access to joint funds, clients who have not established any independent financial identity can find themselves dependent on a spouse who controls all the money — precisely when they are trying to leave.

Before you build that budget, it helps to know which costs are set by the court system: our Charleston divorce cost guide lists the filing, service and mediation fees with their sources. When the paperwork is ready, our guide to filing in Charleston County Family Court walks through the forms and the service rules.

For the attorney side of that budget, the page on our Charleston divorce attorneys explains how the consultation works and how the initial retainer is quoted.

Build a Complete Financial Picture First

Before you do anything else, inventory the entire marital estate. You are looking for:

Bank and investment accounts

Real property and vehicles

Business interests

If either spouse owns a business or has an ownership interest in one, that interest may be marital property subject to valuation and division. Business valuation is complex and almost always requires a valuation professional. If your spouse owns a business and you are preparing for divorce, note the business name, structure (LLC, S-corp, sole proprietorship), and any documentation you have access to about revenues and expenses. If a business is part of your marital estate, our page on high-asset divorce in Charleston covers how these cases are worked.

Debts

Gather and Secure Copies of Critical Documents

Once you have the inventory, gather copies of the underlying documents and store them somewhere your spouse cannot access or destroy them—a safe at work, a parent’s home, a cloud storage account your spouse does not know about, or with your attorney. Priority documents include:

You are entitled to access all joint accounts and jointly filed tax returns. Reviewing these documents before filing is not improper; it is prudent. Your spouse’s separate accounts—accounts solely in their name—are a different matter; do not access those without authorization.

Open Your Own Accounts and Build Independent Credit

If you do not have a bank account and credit card in your name only, open them now—before you file. This is not hiding assets; it is establishing financial independence. You will need a separate checking account to receive income during the separation period, to pay personal expenses, and to retain an attorney.

If you have no credit history in your own name — a common situation for the spouse who managed household finances while the other built a career — take steps now:

Build an Emergency Fund—Within Legal Limits

It is entirely appropriate to set aside money for living expenses and legal fees before you file. The question is how much and from where. SC courts distinguish between prudent preparation and dissipation of marital assets:

Do not transfer, drain, or hide marital assets in anticipation of filing. Any restriction on transferring, encumbering, or dissipating marital assets is case-specific — ask your attorney promptly whether a standing order, temporary order, or other restriction already applies, and whether to seek temporary relief restricting transfers (see the FAQ below). Actions taken before and after filing are scrutinized, and everything must be disclosed on your Financial Declaration. Honesty is not just ethically required—it is strategically required. Judges notice when financial declarations don’t match bank records.

What You Cannot Do: Hidden Assets and Contempt

Concealing marital assets during a South Carolina divorce is not a gray area. The parties’ finances come into the open through sworn disclosure: the Family Court Financial Declaration (SCCA 430) is a sworn document—lying on it is perjury and contempt of court. Discovery tools including subpoenas, depositions under oath, and forensic account analysis are available to either party. Asset concealment can seriously damage a spouse’s credibility with the court, and depending on the facts and the court’s authority, a court that finds concealment may:

If you suspect your spouse is concealing assets, the solution is aggressive discovery—not concealment on your side. Hiring a forensic accountant to trace financial records is far more effective, and far less risky, than trying to hide your own assets.

When to Consult a Forensic Accountant

Consider engaging a forensic accountant if your case involves any of the following:

Forensic accounting can be a significant expense, so counsel should weigh the likely benefit against the cost. In complex cases, a forensic accountant may help identify, trace, or value assets so you and the court have better information to work from.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can my spouse freeze our joint accounts when I file?

A joint account is generally accessible to either account holder, but withdrawing or draining funds can have consequences for the property division, and a standing, temporary, or case-specific order may already restrict it — ask your attorney before assuming either way. If your spouse begins draining joint accounts, the appropriate response is a noticed motion to the Family Court asking for a temporary order restricting transfers (and, depending on the circumstances, holding the spouse responsible for dissipated funds in the eventual property division). Courts may treat financial emergencies differently from child-safety emergencies, so ask a Charleston family-law attorney about the appropriate motion and timing. Document every transaction with bank statements either way.

Will my spouse’s retirement account be split in the divorce?

The portion of a 401(k), pension, or IRA earned during the marriage is generally marital property subject to equitable distribution in South Carolina. Dividing an employer-sponsored plan like a 401(k) or pension generally requires a separate order submitted to the plan administrator — most commonly a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) for ERISA-governed plans, but Domestic Relations Orders (DROs) for non-ERISA plans and specialized military or government orders for federal retirement systems are also used, depending on the plan type. An IRA is typically divided differently, through a transfer incident to divorce processed by the IRA custodian under the divorce decree or agreement, rather than a QDRO. Your attorney should prepare the appropriate paperwork at the same time as the divorce decree — waiting until after the divorce is finalized can complicate implementation, so address retirement-division paperwork before or at the time of the decree when possible.

What if I have not worked in years and have no income?

A spouse who has not worked outside the home may be entitled to alimony and an equitable share of marital property, including the marital home and retirement assets built during the marriage. The Family Court can also enter a temporary order requiring the working spouse to pay interim support and attorney’s fees while the case is pending—so you are not dependent on goodwill. See our guide on alimony in South Carolina for the types and qualification standards.

Next steps: read our guide on equitable distribution in South Carolina to understand how the court divides marital property, and our guide on grounds for divorce in South Carolina to understand which ground best fits your situation.

Request a Confidential Consultation With a Charleston Family Law Attorney

Every family’s situation is different, and the right next step depends on your facts. If you would like to talk through your situation confidentially and without obligation, call Hall & Means at (843) 377-1341 or inquire online. We will listen first, then explain your options in plain language.

Hall & Means, LLC serves clients in Charleston and the South Carolina Lowcountry, including Charleston County in the 9th Judicial Circuit and neighboring Dorchester County in the 1st Judicial Circuit. The legal framework discussed here applies statewide in South Carolina.


About the Author

Mary Ann Hall is a founding partner at Hall & Means, LLC with more than 20 years of family-law experience. She is licensed to practice in South Carolina and has built her career advocating for clients and their rights in divorce, custody, alimony, and family law proceedings throughout the Lowcountry.

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This article is general legal information, not legal advice, and does not create an attorney-client relationship. South Carolina law changes and every case turns on its specific facts. Consult a licensed South Carolina family-law attorney about your situation. (Attorney advertising — SC RPC 7.1.)

How to File for Divorce in Charleston County, SC

How to File for Divorce in Charleston County, SC

By Jessica Means, Hall & Means, LLC

You file a South Carolina divorce in the county S.C. Code § 20-3-60 points to — not the county you would prefer. Charleston County Family Court sits at 100 Broad Street, Suite 143, and there is no family-court e-filing anywhere in South Carolina, so every divorce is filed on paper. Hall & Means handles these cases from our West Ashley office.

Filing is the mechanical part. If you want to understand how the case itself will run — grounds, property, custody, and what happens at the first hearing — start with our overview of divorce representation in Charleston, SC.

Where do you file for divorce in Charleston County?

Charleston County Family Court is at 100 Broad Street, Suite 143, Charleston, SC 29401-2265, phone (843) 958-4400, open Monday through Friday, 8:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. The suite matters: Suite 106 at the same address, (843) 958-5000, is Common Pleas and General Sessions — a different court, a different counter. Charleston County sits in the 9th Judicial Circuit with Berkeley County; Dorchester sits in the 1st.

You will be filing on paper. South Carolina has no Family Court e-filing. The statewide E-Filing System is a Court of Common Pleas program and its portal excludes non-attorney users outright. Attorneys file divorces on paper here too.

Do you file in Charleston County if you live in West Ashley, Summerville, or Daniel Island?

Where you live is only part of the answer, and hiring a Charleston attorney does not decide it. § 20-3-60 sets venue. Its words: “Actions for divorce from the bonds of matrimony or for separate support and maintenance must be tried in the county (a) in which the defendant resides at the time of the commencement of the action, (b) in which the plaintiff resides if the defendant is a nonresident or after due diligence cannot be found, or (c) in which the parties last resided together as husband and wife unless the plaintiff is a nonresident, in which case it must be brought in the county in which the defendant resides.”

Because the three counties adjoin, prongs (a) and (c) routinely point to different counties once a couple separates — something we confirm before anything is filed. Venue attaches to a county, never to a city name and never to a ZIP code.

Where you liveCountyWhy it is not obvious
West AshleyCharlestonNot a Census place — an area of Charleston County
Mount Pleasant, James IslandCharlestonCharleston County only
Daniel IslandBerkeleyCity of Charleston, but Berkeley County
North CharlestonCharleston, Dorchester or BerkeleySpans all three counties
SummervilleDorchester, Berkeley or CharlestonMostly Dorchester — not all of it
LadsonBerkeley or CharlestonTwo counties, not three — the third is a USPS mailing area, not a boundary
Goose Creek, Moncks Corner, HanahanBerkeleyBerkeley County only

County assignments for the incorporated places and for Ladson come from the U.S. Census Bureau’s 2020 place-to-county file for South Carolina. West Ashley and Daniel Island are not Census places — they are named areas, in Charleston County and Berkeley County respectively, confirmed at address level with the Census Geocoder. In a split city the county parcel lookup settles yours — Charleston County’s is at gisccweb.charlestoncounty.org.

If venue lands elsewhere the governing state law is the same; the county, judicial circuit, clerk and published hours are not. Berkeley County Family Court is at 300-B California Avenue, Moncks Corner, and opens at 9:00 a.m. rather than 8:30. Dorchester County Family Court is at the Troy Knight Judicial Complex, 212 Deming Way, in Summerville — not at the county seat in St. George.

We also keep local pages for readers in Mount Pleasant, North Charleston, Summerville, Goose Creek and Moncks Corner, each covering which county’s Family Court hears a case from that address. If either spouse is on active duty, our military divorce page covers the federal rules that sit on top of the South Carolina process.

Who can file for divorce in South Carolina, and on what ground?

Under § 20-3-30 the plaintiff must have lived in South Carolina for at least a year before the action is commenced — but if both spouses are residents at commencement, the period is three months. Where you married is irrelevant.

§ 20-3-10 gives South Carolina five grounds: adultery; desertion for a period of one year; physical cruelty; habitual drunkenness; and living separate and apart without cohabitation for one year. That last one is the only no-fault path — South Carolina has no “irreconcilable differences” divorce — and desertion is itself a one-year ground, so it shortens nothing. Our guide to the grounds for divorce in South Carolina covers what each requires.

What do you file to open a divorce case in Charleston County?

Every divorce opens with a Summons and Complaint, plus the forms the Clerk needs to docket it. The numbers below are the South Carolina Judicial Branch’s own. The two carrying an SRL-DIV suffix are the versions inside the self-represented packet; a case outside that packet’s narrow scope is opened on pleadings drafted for it, not on the SRL forms. The Financial Declaration runs on its own clock rather than gating the filing.

What you fileFormWhat it does
Summons for DivorceSCCA 400.01 SRL-DIVNotifies your spouse of the action and the response deadline
Complaint for DivorceSCCA 400.02 SRL-DIVStates the ground and asks the court for relief
Family Court CoversheetSCCA 467 (Rev. 11/2024)Required for docketing; carries the nature-of-action code (Divorce is 110), and a copy must be served with the Summons and Complaint
Financial DeclarationSCCA 430 (Rev. 11/2024)Sworn statement of income, expenses, assets and debts. Family Court Rule 20(a) requires it where a party’s financial condition is relevant or at issue; Rule 20(b) allows it up to the first hearing or 45 days after service, whichever is first
Certificate of ExemptionSCRFCMFORM02Filed only on one of its four grounds — total agreement, a contempt action, a DSS-initiated case, or issues already through a conforming ADR conference

One more thing gets missed: a parenting plan is not part of the opening filing either. § 63-15-220 requires each parent to prepare, file and submit one at contested temporary custody hearings. If support is at issue, see how South Carolina calculates child support.

What does it cost to file for divorce in Charleston County?

The filing fee for a divorce action is $150, set by statute rather than by the county.

Court costAmountWhere it comes from
Filing a divorce, annulment, or separate support and maintenance action$150Judicial Branch fee schedule — $100 under § 8-21-310(C)(1) plus $50 under § 14-1-204(B)(1)
Your spouse’s answer, return or other papersNo fee§ 8-21-310(D)
A motion$25§ 8-21-320
Motion for temporary relief (Rule 21)$25Motion Fee List — the motion “may include numerous standard forms of relief… However, only one fee charged”
Rule to show cause, child or spousal supportNo feeMotion Fee List — but a rule to show cause in a court-ordered custody or visitation case is $25
Sheriff’s service of the Summons and Complaint$15, plus $5 per further attempt, $25 maximum§ 23-19-10(d); the Charleston County Sheriff’s Office posts $15

Sources, all retrieved August 25, 2026: the South Carolina Judicial Branch family court fee schedule; the Motion Fee List (court order of September 29, 2016); S.C. Code § 23-19-10 for sheriff’s fees; and the Charleston County Sheriff’s civil-process fees. Court costs change — confirm the current amount with the Clerk before you file.

If the $150 is out of reach the court can waive it — see the fee-waiver question below. Note also that no Charleston, Berkeley or Dorchester family-court surcharge is published on any court or county source, which is not the same as saying none exists, and clerk offices charge their own copy fees on top. Court costs are in any case not what representation costs: at Hall & Means an initial retainer is quoted at your consultation, based on the facts of your case. See what a Charleston divorce actually costs beyond the filing fee.

What happens after you file?

Serving your spouse, and the 30-day answer

Service runs on Rule 4, SCRCP. Rule 4(c) allows the sheriff, a deputy, or any non-party who is not an attorney and is at least 18. Rule 4(d)(1) covers personal delivery, or delivery at the dwelling or usual abode to a person of suitable age and discretion residing there; Rule 4(d)(9) allows a commercial delivery service; under Rule 4(j) your spouse can sign an acceptance of service. Certified mail carries a catch — Rule 4(d)(8) requires delivery restricted to the addressee and cannot support a default without a receipt showing the defendant’s acceptance.

Your spouse then has 30 days — Rule 12(a): “a defendant shall serve his answer within 30 days after the service of the complaint upon him.” Rule 6(e) separately adds five days for service by mail; whether it reaches a Rule 4(d)(8) service is a judgment call for your attorney, so do not rely on a flat “35 days.” A missing answer does not end the case on the merits: Rule 17(a) still requires notice of the merits hearing and lets a defaulting defendant be heard there on custody, visitation, alimony, support, equitable distribution and counsel fees.

The deadlines the case actually runs on

StepPublished deadlineSource
Temporary-hearing request → the hearingNot sooner than 21 days, not later than 45Family Court Rule 21(c)
Motion and notice of hearing servedAt least 20 days beforeRule 21(d)
The responding party’s returnNo later than 10 days beforeRule 21(e)
All written evidence served and filedNo later than 5 days beforeRule 21(f)(2)
Financial DeclarationFirst hearing, or 45 days after service — whichever is firstRule 20(b)
Mediator appointed → first conferenceWithin 30 daysADR Rule 4(d)(4)
Filing → a referenceNot before two months§ 20-3-80
Filing → a final decreeNot before three months — but on desertion or one-year separation the decree may issue once responsive pleadings are filed or default is adjudged§ 20-3-80
Hearing → the written orderNot later than 30 daysFamily Court Rule 26(c)
Filing → a contested final hearingNo published figure—

Two of those rows carry most of the weight. Temporary relief is decided on paper — Rule 21, amended effective October 1, 2025, confines the evidence to “affidavits, financial declarations, and any other documents which are statutorily-required (such as a parenting plan)” — though for good cause the judge may permit or require additional evidence or testimony. Mediation gates the trial date — ADR Rule 3(a) subjects all contested issues in domestic relations actions to court-ordered mediation, subject to the nine exempt categories in Rule 3(b) and a good-cause exemption under Rule 3(c), and Rule 4(d)(2)(A) controls the calendar: “The court shall not schedule a hearing on the merits until a Proof of ADR has been filed.”

The waiting period is also not what most articles say. Section 20-3-80 sets two bars — no reference before two months after filing, no decree before three months — then exempts two grounds: where the plaintiff seeks a divorce on the ground of desertion or one-year separation, the hearing may be held and the decree issued once responsive pleadings are filed or the respondent is adjudged in default. And no South Carolina court and none of the three clerks publishes an average time from filing to a contested final hearing, so any “the average Charleston divorce takes X months” is an estimate, not a court statistic.

Can you file for divorce in Charleston County without a lawyer?

Yes — you may represent yourself in a South Carolina divorce, and for one narrow category of case the state even builds the paperwork for you. The Judicial Branch publishes a free self-represented divorce packet, SCCA 400P SRL-DIV (Plaintiff Instructions, revised 06/2024), designed for people who meet all of the following: filing on the ground of one year of continuous separation without cohabitation; having no marital property or debt or an agreement on how to divide it; and having no children and none expected or minor children with an agreement on custody, visitation and child support that meets the South Carolina Child Support Guidelines minimums.

Read that twice, because it is the most misreported thing about filing here. The packet is not closed to parents, and not closed to couples who own property. It is closed to couples who cannot agree. The court’s own next line says so: where you have lived in separate dwellings for less than a year or cannot agree, getting a divorce on your own is not recommended. Fault grounds are outside the packet altogether.

From the packet itself: make two copies, take the originals and copies to the Clerk of Court in that county, and bring cash, a cashier’s check or a money order — not a personal check. South Carolina Legal Services publishes a free interactive version at lawhelp.org/sc, and the packet lists the South Carolina Bar Lawyer Referral Service (1-800-868-2284), whose members have agreed to a 30-minute consultation for no more than $50 (SCCA 400P SRL-DIV, rev. 06/2024, retrieved August 25, 2026). Either way, read protecting yourself financially before filing first.

Questions we hear about filing in Charleston County

I live in West Ashley. Do I file in Charleston County?

Your address alone does not decide it — § 20-3-60 does. West Ashley is not a separate municipality; it is an area of Charleston County, so the address is a Charleston County one, and our own office sits there. But venue turns on where the defendant resides, where the plaintiff resides if the defendant is a nonresident or cannot be found after due diligence, or where you last resided together.

Can I file for divorce online in South Carolina?

No. South Carolina has no Family Court e-filing at all. The statewide E-Filing System covers the Court of Common Pleas, not Family Court, and its portal excludes non-attorney users. Every divorce in Charleston, Berkeley and Dorchester counties is filed on paper with the Clerk of Court, by attorneys and self-represented parties alike.

What if I cannot afford the $150 filing fee?

You can ask the court to waive it. File a Motion and Affidavit to Proceed In Forma Pauperis (SCCA 405) under Rule 3(b)(1), SCRCP; a presumption of inability arises where net household income is at or below the HHS Poverty Guidelines. If a legal aid, nonprofit or South Carolina Bar Pro Bono Program attorney represents you, Rule 3(b)(2) waives the fee on that attorney’s written certification.

We have children. Does that rule out the free self-help packet?

No. The Judicial Branch’s packet expressly allows minor children where the parents have reached an agreement on custody, visitation and child support that meets the South Carolina Child Support Guidelines minimums. The same holds for marital property and debt you have agreed how to divide. What disqualifies you is disagreement, not children.

What happens if my spouse never responds to the Complaint?

The case moves forward, but your spouse does not lose the right to be heard. Family Court Rule 17(a) requires that notice of the time and date of the merits hearing be given even where no answer is filed, and it lets a defaulting defendant be heard at that hearing on custody, visitation, alimony, support, equitable distribution and counsel fees.

How long does a divorce take in South Carolina?

A no-fault divorce in South Carolina requires one year of living separate and apart, without cohabitation, before you file; the decree may then follow once your spouse answers or is held in default. If the ground is adultery, physical cruelty or habitual drunkenness, S.C. Code § 20-3-80 bars a final decree until three months after filing.

Those are minimum waits, not predictions, and a fault ground still has to be proved. Desertion, the remaining ground in § 20-3-10, also requires one year, and § 20-3-80 exempts it from the three-month bar, as it does the one-year separation. If you moved to South Carolina recently, the residency rule in § 20-3-30, covered above, must be met before you file.

One court rule can remove the final hearing altogether. Under Family Court Rule 28, the court may grant an uncontested divorce on the one-year separation ground without a hearing. The relief sought must be limited to the divorce and any related change of name, and the rule’s other conditions must be met, including affidavits from the parties and corroborating witnesses. If any other relief is sought, such as child support, child custody or visitation, alimony, property distribution, or fees for attorneys or guardians ad litem, the divorce may not be granted without a hearing.

A contested case also runs on the mediation and temporary-hearing deadlines set out earlier on this page, and the South Carolina Judicial Branch publishes no average time from filing to decree. At Hall & Means in Charleston, we can tell you which of these clocks apply to your case.

Request a Confidential Consultation With a Charleston Family Law Attorney

Filing correctly is the easy half. Deciding what to ask the court for — and what to agree to — is the half that follows you for years. To talk through your situation confidentially and without obligation, call Hall & Means at (843) 377-1341 or inquire online.

Hall & Means, LLC concentrates in family law and represents clients across Charleston, Berkeley and Dorchester counties from 1816 Belgrade Avenue, Ste. 101, Charleston, SC 29407, in West Ashley.


About the Author

Jessica Means is a partner at Hall & Means, LLC who represents clients in divorce, custody, and family law matters, with a particular focus on cases involving children. A former lay Guardian ad Litem, she contributed more than 100 pro bono hours in DSS abuse and neglect matters in Charleston and Dorchester counties.

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This article is general legal information, not legal advice, and does not create an attorney-client relationship. South Carolina law changes and every case turns on its specific facts. Consult a licensed South Carolina family-law attorney about your situation. (Attorney advertising — SC RPC 7.1.)

Grounds for Divorce in SC: Fault vs. No-Fault Explained

Grounds for Divorce in SC: Fault vs. No-Fault Explained

By Mary Ann Hall, Hall & Means, LLC

South Carolina recognizes five grounds for divorce under SC Code § 20-3-10: adultery, desertion for one year, physical cruelty, habitual drunkenness, and the state’s only no-fault ground — one year of continuous separation. At Hall & Means in Charleston, we help spouses understand how the ground they plead, and each spouse’s conduct during the marriage, can shape alimony, property division, and the tone of the case.

The most important thing to understand upfront: South Carolina does not have a simple “irreconcilable differences” ground. The closest equivalent is a mandatory one-year separation period—and that one requirement sets SC divorce law apart from many other states.

If you would rather have help choosing a ground, see what working with a divorce lawyer in Charleston looks like at our firm.

The Five Grounds for Divorce in South Carolina

SC Code § 20-3-10 lists the only grounds on which a South Carolina court may grant an absolute divorce:

  1. Adultery — voluntary sexual conduct by either spouse with someone other than the other spouse (the standard applies to same-sex marriages as well), proven by circumstantial evidence establishing both opportunity and inclination
  2. Desertion for one year — one spouse willfully abandons the other without justification and without consent
  3. Physical cruelty — actual personal violence, or conduct that creates a reasonable apprehension of bodily harm and makes continued cohabitation unsafe
  4. Habitual drunkenness — a fixed habit of excessive intoxication by alcohol or narcotics; a single incident is insufficient
  5. One year of continuous separation — both spouses have lived separate and apart without cohabitation for at least one year (the only no-fault ground)

Grounds 1 through 4 are fault-based. Ground 5 is no-fault. Many divorce cases proceed on the one-year separation ground because it requires no proof of wrongdoing — once the separation period is complete and properly proved, there is no fault allegation for the other spouse to contest.

What Is the Difference Between Fault and No-Fault Divorce in SC?

In a fault divorce, the petitioning spouse must prove—with evidence—that the other spouse committed one of the four fault acts. Adultery must be proven by circumstantial evidence establishing both opportunity and inclination (direct evidence is rarely available and rarely required). Physical cruelty must be supported by specific incidents, not general claims of a bad marriage. The bar for proof is lower than a criminal trial but higher than simply saying it happened.

In a no-fault divorce, neither party has to prove the other did anything wrong. The only requirement is demonstrating that both spouses lived separate and apart, without cohabitation, for at least one continuous year. There is no requirement that both spouses agree to the divorce—one spouse can file unilaterally once the year is up, and if the ground is properly pleaded and proved, the court may grant the divorce even if the other spouse does not want the marriage to end.

The No-Fault Ground: What “One Year of Separation” Actually Means

South Carolina’s one-year separation requirement has specific rules that trip up many people who try to navigate it without legal guidance.

When does the one-year clock start?

The clock starts on the date one spouse physically moves out of the marital home. South Carolina law requires that spouses live separate and apart without cohabitation — meaning under different roofs. Living in the same home in separate bedrooms generally does not qualify, and resuming cohabitation can restart the one-year period. Before assuming your clock is still running after any time back under the same roof, ask a South Carolina family-law attorney. If you intend to use the no-fault ground, physical separation is essential.

Does the year have to be continuous?

Yes. If the spouses resume cohabitation, the clock resets — even a brief reconciliation can restart the year. This is a significant trap: couples who attempt to reconcile and then separate again should assume the full 12-month period runs from the most recent date of separation, and confirm their timeline with counsel before filing.

Does the other spouse have to agree?

No. Once one year of continuous separation is complete, either spouse may file for divorce, and if the ground is properly pleaded and proved, the Family Court may grant the divorce even if the other spouse objects. A spouse cannot force the marriage to continue by refusing to participate—though they may contest the date of separation, which can matter for property division and alimony.

Fault-Based Grounds: When Do They Actually Matter?

When the separation year has run, many spouses choose the no-fault ground because it avoids the need to prove fault — though the best strategy always depends on the facts. Fault grounds are worth considering in three specific situations:

Adultery and alimony: the stakes are high

Under SC Code § 20-3-130(A), no alimony may be awarded to a spouse who commits adultery before the earliest of (1) the formal signing of a written property or marital settlement agreement or (2) entry of a permanent order of separate maintenance and support, or a permanent order approving a property or marital settlement agreement. The bar is conditional — adultery after that cutoff does not bar alimony. If your spouse committed adultery before the cutoff and you can prove it, that proof can defeat their alimony claim whether you plead adultery as the divorce ground or file no-fault and preserve the evidence. The same timing rules apply in reverse if the adultery allegation is against you. Because the cutoff analysis is precise, get legal advice before assuming the bar applies.

Proving adultery requires circumstantial evidence showing both opportunity (the spouse had access to be alone with the other person) and inclination (a romantic or sexual interest). Text messages, hotel records, and witness testimony are common forms of evidence. Direct proof of the sexual act is not required but is obviously compelling when available.

Physical cruelty: when you cannot wait a year

Physical cruelty is one of the few fault grounds that allows you to file for divorce without waiting. If your spouse has physically abused you, and you have documentation (police reports, medical records, protective orders), you may be able to proceed on this ground immediately rather than waiting the full year. You will still need to prove the cruelty at a hearing—it is not enough to allege it.

Habitual drunkenness: a tool for custody and property arguments

Habitual drunkenness requires proof of a persistent pattern—not a single incident or occasional excess. Documentation through DUI records, employer discipline, medical records, witness testimony, and rehab history is typically required. When proven, it affects not only the divorce itself but also custody (courts take substance abuse very seriously in the best-interests analysis) and can influence equitable distribution arguments about who dissipated marital assets.

Should You File on Fault or No-Fault Grounds?

For most clients in Charleston, the answer is no-fault — once the year is up. Here is the framework for deciding:

How Does the Ground for Divorce Affect Property Division and Alimony?

Property division in South Carolina is governed by equitable apportionment under SC Code § 20-3-620, which lists 15 factors the court weighs. Marital misconduct or fault is one of those factors — particularly where it affected the parties’ economic circumstances or contributed to the breakup of the marriage — but it is not a trump card. Fault alone rarely transforms the division, though egregious financial misconduct (hiding assets, dissipating marital funds on an affair) can meaningfully affect the result.

Alimony is where fault has its sharpest teeth. Adultery committed before the § 20-3-130(A) cutoff — a formally signed written settlement agreement or a permanent order — bars alimony for that spouse. Other fault grounds (cruelty, drunkenness) factor into the court’s alimony analysis as part of the marital-misconduct consideration among the § 20-3-130(C) factors, but they do not automatically bar or guarantee alimony the way pre-cutoff adultery does.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I file for divorce in South Carolina before the one-year separation is complete?

Only on a fault ground. If you can establish adultery, physical cruelty, habitual drunkenness, or one year of desertion, you may file without waiting. If you are using the no-fault ground, the full year of continuous separation must be complete before the divorce complaint is filed—not just before the hearing date.

Does South Carolina have irreconcilable differences as a divorce ground?

No. SC Code § 20-3-10 does not include irreconcilable differences or incompatibility. The practical equivalent is the one-year separation ground, but it requires a full year of continuous, documented separation before you can file. Many people are surprised by this when they move to South Carolina from states that allow immediate no-fault filing.

Does it matter who files first for divorce in South Carolina?

Generally no. The petitioner (the spouse who files first) goes first at trial, which has minor tactical implications, but South Carolina does not favor the petitioner over the respondent in property division, alimony, or custody decisions. Filing first does not give you a legal advantage in substantive matters.

Can my spouse stop the divorce by refusing to cooperate?

No. Under the no-fault ground, a spouse cannot force the marriage to continue once the one-year separation is complete and properly proved. If the respondent does not participate after proper service, default procedures may apply — but the court still requires proper proof of the ground and compliance with procedure. Under fault grounds, the respondent can contest the factual basis for the fault allegation, which adds time and expense.

Ready to take the next step? See our guide on how to file for divorce in Charleston County for the specific forms, fees, and courthouse procedures. If you are still in the early planning stages, read our article on protecting yourself financially before filing.

Once you know which ground fits, the next question is mechanical: here is how to file for divorce in Charleston County, with companion guides for Berkeley County and Dorchester County.

Request a Confidential Consultation With a Charleston Family Law Attorney

Every family’s situation is different, and the right next step depends on your facts. If you would like to talk through your situation confidentially and without obligation, call Hall & Means at (843) 377-1341 or inquire online. We will listen first, then explain your options in plain language.

Hall & Means, LLC serves clients in Charleston and the South Carolina Lowcountry, including Charleston County in the 9th Judicial Circuit and neighboring Dorchester County in the 1st Judicial Circuit. The legal framework discussed here applies statewide in South Carolina.


About the Author

Mary Ann Hall is a founding partner at Hall & Means, LLC with more than 20 years of family-law experience. She is licensed to practice in South Carolina and has built her career advocating for clients and their rights in divorce, custody, alimony, and family law proceedings throughout the Lowcountry.

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This article is general legal information, not legal advice, and does not create an attorney-client relationship. South Carolina law changes and every case turns on its specific facts. Consult a licensed South Carolina family-law attorney about your situation. (Attorney advertising — SC RPC 7.1.)

Understanding Child Custody Rights in South Carolina

Understanding Child Custody Rights in South Carolina

By Jessica Means, Hall & Means, LLC

Understanding your child custody rights in South Carolina begins with two foundational statutes: SC Code § 63-5-30, which makes both parents the equal, joint natural guardians of their children, and SC Code § 63-15-10, which abolished the old maternal-preference (“tender years”) doctrine. Together they replaced any gender-based presumption with equal parental standing for married parents. But “equal” is not the same as “identical,” and knowing exactly how South Carolina’s Family Courts — particularly the 9th and 1st Judicial Circuits serving Charleston, Berkeley, and Dorchester counties — apply the best-interests standard, and what additional protection the law gives parents of children born outside of marriage, can make a decisive difference before you ever file a Complaint.

If custody is one piece of a divorce for your family, you can see how we handle the whole case on our page for Charleston divorce attorneys.

Does South Carolina Law Favor One Parent in Custody Cases?

No—and that is deliberate. SC Code § 63-5-30 makes both married parents joint natural guardians with equal rights and duties as to their children, and § 63-15-10 abolished the maternal-preference doctrine. A judge cannot prefer one parent over the other simply because of gender. What the court does look at closely is the documented history of day-to-day caregiving — who handled school pickups, medical appointments, bedtime routines, and the steady administrative work of raising a child. The statute is gender-neutral; the factual record the court examines is shaped by whoever did that work.

When a child is born outside of marriage, the equation is different. Under SC Code § 63-17-20(B), unless the court orders otherwise, custody of a child born outside of marriage is solely in the natural mother unless she has relinquished her rights to the child. The biological father has no automatic legal custody — he must establish paternity and obtain a court order before he has enforceable parenting rights. This is one of the few corners of South Carolina custody law where the statute itself is gender-specific, and the rule applies even when the law elsewhere is gender-neutral.

Child Custody Rights in South Carolina: The Legal Foundation

Joint Natural Guardianship Under § 63-5-30

For married parents, § 63-5-30 grants both parents equal rights to:

Neither parent’s right is legally superior at the outset of a custody case. Both start at equal footing and build their case on the statutory best-interests factors.

Unmarried Parents: How § 63-17-20 Allocates Default Custody

If you are the mother of a child born outside of marriage, South Carolina law places you in a significantly stronger starting position than you would have within a marriage. You are the child’s sole legal custodian until a court orders otherwise. The biological father must complete four steps before he has any enforceable custody rights:

  1. Establish paternity—by signing a voluntary Acknowledgment of Paternity or obtaining a DNA-based court order
  2. File a custody or visitation petition in the Family Court for the proper county (in Charleston County, at 100 Broad Street)
  3. Serve the mother with the Summons and Complaint
  4. Obtain a court order specifically granting him custody or parenting time

Default custody does not give an unmarried mother the right to cut off contact indefinitely — courts look unfavorably on willful interference with paternity proceedings — but the legal footing is substantially stronger than it would be inside a marriage.

How Does Charleston Family Court Decide Where Children Live?

The Charleston County Family Court, located at 100 Broad Street, Charleston, SC 29401 (Charleston County sits in the 9th Judicial Circuit), decides custody under the best-interests-of-the-child standard of SC Code § 63-15-230, applying the statutory factors enumerated in § 63-15-240(B). Those factors direct judges to weigh all relevant circumstances, including:

  1. Primary caretaker history — which parent managed the child’s day-to-day care before separation: feeding, school pickups, medical appointments, bedtime routines
  2. Stability and continuity — the child’s adjustment to current home, school, and community
  3. Physical and mental health of each parent
  4. Willingness to support the co-parenting relationship — courts penalize parents who actively undermine the child’s bond with the other parent
  5. History of domestic violence or child abuse — abuse, neglect, and domestic violence are expressly part of the statutory factor list
  6. Child’s preference — the court considers the child’s reasonable preference, weighed by age, experience, maturity, and judgment; no age makes a child’s preference automatically binding
  7. Practical availability — each parent’s work schedule and realistic ability to be present for daily care
  8. Substance abuse history — alcohol, prescription misuse, or illegal drug use in either household
  9. Sibling relationships — the child’s relationships with siblings are part of the statutory analysis
  10. Geographic proximity — distance between the parents’ homes and what that means for school continuity and the child’s existing routines

Parents who would rather have a lawyer make that case can see how we work one on our page for child custody attorneys in Charleston, SC.

No single factor controls the outcome. A parent who has been the documented primary caregiver, maintains a stable home near the child’s current school, and actively supports the child’s relationship with the other parent enters a custody hearing with a factual record that maps directly onto the statutory factors the judge must weigh.

What the Court Cannot Consider

What Is a Parenting Plan, and When Is One Required?

Under SC Code § 63-15-220, at all contested temporary custody hearings each parent must prepare, file, and submit a parenting plan covering parenting time and major decision-making. A thorough plan typically addresses:

In a contested case, each parent files a parenting plan before the temporary hearing. The judge may adopt an agreed version or enter the court’s own order. A detailed, realistic plan helps the court see concretely how your proposal serves the child.

How to File for Custody in Charleston County

Step 1 — File your Complaint. Go to the Family Court Clerk’s Office at 100 Broad Street, Charleston, SC 29401. A custody action starts with a Summons and a Complaint. A filing fee applies for a new family-court action — confirm the current amount with the Clerk of Court or on sccourts.org before you file.

Step 2 — Serve the other parent. The Complaint must be properly served under the South Carolina Rules of Civil Procedure — the Clerk’s Office can explain the accepted methods of service. The case cannot proceed until the other parent is properly served; service cannot be skipped or substituted without court permission.

Step 3 — File a Motion for Temporary Relief if you need interim custody established while the case is pending. A temporary hearing produces an order governing custody, visitation, and typically child support until the final hearing; how quickly it is scheduled depends on the county’s docket.

Step 4 — Prepare your Parenting Plan. At all contested temporary custody hearings, each parent must prepare, file, and submit a parenting plan (§ 63-15-220); current official forms are on the sccourts.org Family Court forms index. The plan should include a specific day-by-day schedule, not vague language about “reasonable visitation.”

Step 5 — Attend the temporary hearing. Documentation supporting your case — school pickup records, medical appointment logs, communications with teachers or pediatricians, and, where relevant, police reports, medical records, and any protective orders — should be prepared and exchanged according to the court’s rules and any scheduling order, not handed in cold at the bench.

Step 6 — Discovery and final hearing. Family court discovery typically involves document requests and depositions. When custody is contested, the judge may appoint a Guardian ad Litem (GAL) to represent the child’s interests independently. How long final resolution takes depends on the court’s docket and whether the case settles or proceeds to a full evidentiary hearing.

When Can a Custody Order Be Modified?

To modify a custody order, South Carolina case law (Stutz v. Funderburk; Latimer v. Farmer) requires the parent seeking the change to show a substantial change in circumstances affecting the child’s welfare that was not anticipated when the prior order was entered; the best-interest factors in § 63-15-240(B) then guide the court’s analysis. Courts require more than routine life changes or ordinary parenting disagreements. Circumstances of the kind that — depending on the facts — may support a modification request include:

Two South Carolina statutes protect a deploying parent’s custody rights; we walk through both on our military divorce page.

Can a Parent Relocate with Children After a Custody Order?

If there is an existing custody order, do not move before reading what the order itself requires and, in most situations, obtaining the other parent’s consent or court approval. A move that conflicts with the order’s terms can expose you to contempt proceedings, makeup parenting time awarded to the other parent, or a modification action. South Carolina treats relocation as a best-interest question — a parent’s relocation more than 100 miles from the child’s primary residence in the past year is one factor among the § 63-15-240(B) considerations, not an automatic trigger. If you need to relocate for work, family, or safety reasons, talk with a family-law attorney about seeking a modification first and build the record around the benefit of the move to the child.

If there is no existing order, the analysis is fact-specific rather than automatic: for married parents, both hold equal guardianship rights under § 63-5-30, and for a child born outside marriage, § 63-17-20(B) places default custody with the natural mother — but the other parent can file for custody, and a move can quickly become a best-interest issue in that case. Courts look unfavorably on moves designed to frustrate an ongoing paternity or custody case. Talk to a South Carolina family-law attorney before relocating, even without an order in place.

What Happens When the Other Parent Violates a Custody Order?

File a Rule to Show Cause with the Family Court. The violating parent must appear and explain the violation to the judge. Possible outcomes include makeup parenting time ordered in your favor, attorney’s fees assessed against the violating parent, modification of the custody schedule, and—for repeated or willful violations—civil contempt including incarceration.

Document every violation in writing: date, time, what was supposed to happen, what actually happened, and any witnesses. One incident is a dispute; a documented pattern gives the court something concrete to evaluate — though contempt always turns on whether a clear order was willfully violated, which the court decides.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does one parent automatically get custody in a South Carolina divorce?

No. SC Code § 63-5-30 gives both married parents equal legal standing — there is no presumption in favor of either parent. The court decides custody based on the child’s best interests under § 63-15-230 (applying the factors in § 63-15-240(B)), not based on gender.

What if the other parent won’t follow the parenting schedule?

File a Rule to Show Cause for contempt. Document every missed or interfered-with exchange in writing. If denial of access is ongoing and clearly harming the child, you can also move for an emergency modification of the custody order.

Can I get sole custody in South Carolina?

Yes, a court may award it. South Carolina recognizes both sole and joint custody (the terms are defined in § 63-15-210), and there is no statutory preference for either — the court orders the arrangement that serves the child’s best interest. The parents’ demonstrated ability to cooperate on day-to-day care and major decisions is part of that analysis. Sole physical custody means the child lives with you full-time with structured visitation for the other parent; sole legal custody means exclusive decision-making authority.

How long does a custody case take in Charleston County?

There is no fixed schedule — timing depends on the county’s docket, service on the other parent, and whether the case settles. A temporary hearing is generally the first milestone, and a contested case that proceeds to a full evidentiary hearing (especially with a Guardian ad Litem) takes substantially longer than an agreed settlement. A local family-law attorney can give you a realistic estimate for the current Charleston County docket.

What forms do I need to start a custody case in Charleston?

A custody case starts with a Summons and a Complaint, and at contested temporary custody hearings each parent must submit a parenting plan. Current official forms are available from the Family Court Clerk’s Office at 100 Broad Street or from the Family Court forms index at sccourts.org.

If your situation involves an immediate safety threat—domestic violence, a parent threatening to leave the state with your child, or substance abuse in the home—see our guide to emergency custody orders in Charleston for how the 9th Judicial Circuit handles emergency ex parte relief.

For information on how child support is calculated alongside a custody order, see How Child Support Is Calculated in South Carolina.

Request a Confidential Consultation With a Charleston Family Law Attorney

Every family’s situation is different, and the right next step depends on your facts. If you would like to talk through your situation confidentially and without obligation, call Hall & Means at (843) 377-1341 or inquire online. We will listen first, then explain your options in plain language.

Hall & Means, LLC serves clients in Charleston and the South Carolina Lowcountry, including Charleston County in the 9th Judicial Circuit and neighboring Dorchester County in the 1st Judicial Circuit. The legal framework discussed here applies statewide in South Carolina.


About the Author

Jessica Means is a partner at Hall & Means, LLC who represents clients in divorce, custody, and family law matters, with a particular focus on cases involving children. A former lay Guardian ad Litem, she contributed more than 100 pro bono hours in DSS abuse and neglect matters in Charleston and Dorchester counties — experience that complements her work as a litigator.

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This article is general legal information, not legal advice, and does not create an attorney-client relationship. South Carolina law changes and every case turns on its specific facts. Consult a licensed South Carolina family-law attorney about your situation. (Attorney advertising — SC RPC 7.1.)

How Child Support Is Calculated in South Carolina

How Child Support Is Calculated in South Carolina

By Mary Ann Hall, Hall & Means, LLC

South Carolina calculates child support using the Income Shares Model under SC Code § 63-17-470 and the SC DSS Child Support Guidelines, combining both parents’ gross incomes, applying a published schedule, and dividing the obligation by each parent’s share of that income. At Hall & Means in Charleston, we help parents understand what goes into that number before they ever step into Family Court.

How South Carolina Calculates Child Support: The Income Shares Model

South Carolina uses the Income Shares Model. The premise: children should receive the same proportion of parental income they would have received had the parents remained together. Both parents contribute, and the contribution is proportional to each parent’s share of combined gross income.

The current South Carolina Child Support Guidelines are the 2024 Edition, effective January 1, 2024 — the first revision since 2014. That revision raised the schedule’s basic obligations and raised the combined gross income ceiling from $30,000 to $40,000 per month. If your support order pre-dates 2024, it may be worth asking a family-law attorney whether the new schedule, together with any other changes in your circumstances, supports a review (modification is fact-specific — covered below).

What Counts as Income Under the SC Child Support Guidelines?

“Gross income” for child support purposes is defined by the Guidelines, and it is broader than most clients expect — it generally reaches earnings from employment and self-employment as well as many other recurring income sources, while certain means-tested public benefits are excluded. The current SC DSS Guidelines booklet (available at dss.sc.gov) sets out the full definitions of what is included and excluded.

One principle worth knowing up front: if a parent is voluntarily unemployed or underemployed — meaning they could earn more and have chosen not to — the court can impute “potential income” based on what that parent could reasonably earn given their work history, education, and the local job market.

Which Worksheet Applies to Your Case?

South Carolina uses three worksheets, and the one that applies depends entirely on the custody arrangement:

WorksheetCustody ArrangementWhen It Applies
ASole / Primary CustodyOne parent has the children most of the time; the other has standard visitation
BSplit CustodyEach parent has primary custody of at least one child
CShared CustodyEach parent has the children at least 109 overnights per year (≈30%)

Many cases involving one primary custodial parent use Worksheet A; the correct worksheet depends on each family’s custody arrangement. The shared-custody threshold of 109 overnights is a sharp line. At 108 overnights, you are on Worksheet A. At 109 or more, you shift to Worksheet C, which adjusts the calculation to account for the fact that both households are now bearing duplicate expenses. The math changes meaningfully at that threshold. Which side of that line a family lands on follows from the custody arrangement itself — how a South Carolina judge sets one is covered on our page for a child custody attorney in Charleston, SC.

How a Worksheet A Calculation Works, Step by Step

Here is the structure of a Worksheet A calculation. To keep it clear, we’ll label the parties as the Custodial Parent (the one the children primarily live with) and the Non-Custodial Parent. We deliberately do not publish sample dollar amounts — the schedule figures change with each Guidelines revision, and the only numbers that matter are the current ones for your actual incomes. The SC DSS online calculator (dss.sc.gov) applies the current schedule to your real figures.

Step 1 — Combine both parents’ gross monthly incomes. The Guidelines’ income definitions control what counts.

Step 2 — Look up the basic obligation. The DSS schedule, found in the Child Support Guidelines booklet, assigns a basic monthly obligation for your combined income and number of children.

Step 3 — Determine each parent’s income share. Each parent’s gross income divided by the combined figure gives that parent’s percentage — the share of the basic obligation each is responsible for.

Step 4 — Add work-related childcare and health insurance. Work-related childcare and the child’s portion of health-insurance premiums are added and apportioned by the same percentages. Whichever parent pays those costs directly is credited for them.

Step 5 — Calculate the final support amount. Because the Custodial Parent already keeps the children most nights, that parent’s share is presumed spent directly on the children. The Non-Custodial Parent’s share of the basic obligation, plus that parent’s share of the add-ons, becomes the monthly support order.

That result is the guideline amount. The court generally follows it unless a recognized deviation factor justifies a different number. Child support is usually set inside a divorce or custody action. If a divorce is what brought you here, our Charleston, SC divorce attorneys page explains the process end to end.

When Can a Court Deviate From the Guidelines?

Courts generally apply the Guidelines unless doing so would be unjust or inappropriate in a particular case — deviation is the exception, not the norm. The current DSS Guidelines booklet enumerates the recognized deviation factors, which cover categories such as educational expenses for a child, the equitable distribution of property in the underlying divorce, consumer debts incurred for the family’s benefit, extraordinary unreimbursed medical expenses, and existing support obligations for other dependents.

If the court deviates, expect the judge to explain the basis for the deviation on the record. If you believe a deviation factor applies to your case, raise it explicitly with supporting documentation — deviations are not granted by implication.

Modifying an Existing Support Order

Support orders are not permanent. They can be modified when circumstances change meaningfully after the order is entered.

Substantial Change in Circumstances

South Carolina recognizes the modification of an existing support order when there has been a substantial change in circumstances since the order was entered. A modest dollar swing under recalculation generally will not justify modification on its own — whether a given recalculation supports modification is fact-specific, so ask a South Carolina family-law attorney to review the current Guidelines against your circumstances. The guidelines schedule was revised in January 2024, and that schedule change, combined with other meaningful changes, is the kind of factor a court will weigh.

Examples of changes that commonly support a modification request include:

Timing can affect what relief is available, which is why it is worth speaking with a South Carolina family-law attorney promptly once your circumstances change rather than waiting.

What to Bring to Your Support Hearing

Charleston County Family Court hears support matters with the documentation in front of the judge. To support a calculation under Worksheet A, expect to provide:

Bring the original plus any copies the Clerk of Court requires — confirm the current copy requirements before your hearing.

How South Carolina Enforces Child Support

Once entered, a support order can be enforced through several mechanisms:

If you are not receiving the support you have been ordered, the SC Department of Social Services Child Support Services Division can assist with enforcement.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does South Carolina favor mothers in child support cases?

No. South Carolina applies the Income Shares Model identically regardless of which parent has primary custody. The custodial parent receives support; that parent may be the mother or the father. The guidelines themselves are gender-neutral. For more on how SC custody law works in practice, see our guide on Understanding Child Custody Rights in South Carolina.

What if the other parent is hiding income?

This is common, particularly with self-employed parents. The remedies include subpoenaing bank records, tax returns, and business books; deposing the parent under oath; and asking the court to impute income at the parent’s earning capacity rather than their reported income. The court can also order forensic accounting in higher-asset cases.

Can we agree to a support amount that differs from the guidelines?

Yes, but the court must approve it. Parents can agree to deviate, but the judge will only sign the order if the agreed amount is reasonable and the deviation is supported by one of the enumerated factors. Agreements to pay less than the guideline amount receive particularly close scrutiny because the support belongs to the child, not the receiving parent — it cannot simply be waived.

How long does child support last in South Carolina?

Support generally continues until the child turns 18 or graduates from high school, and it can extend for a child still finishing high school (generally up to about age 19) or longer for a child with a disability that prevents self-support. Whether and how college expenses are addressed is fact-specific — ask a South Carolina family-law attorney about your situation.

What happens to support if I become the emergency custodian?

An emergency custody order can change which parent receives support, and the existing support order should be modified accordingly. The same Family Court that issued the emergency order can address support at the temporary hearing that follows. For details on the emergency custody process, see our guide on Protecting Your Children: Emergency Custody Orders in Charleston.

Request a Confidential Consultation With a Charleston Family Law Attorney

Every family’s situation is different, and the right next step depends on your facts. If you would like to talk through your situation confidentially and without obligation, call Hall & Means at (843) 377-1341 or inquire online. We will listen first, then explain your options in plain language.

Hall & Means, LLC serves clients in Charleston and the South Carolina Lowcountry, including Charleston County in the 9th Judicial Circuit and neighboring Dorchester County in the 1st Judicial Circuit. The legal framework discussed here applies statewide in South Carolina.


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Mary Ann Hall is a founding partner at Hall & Means, LLC with more than 20 years of family-law experience. She is licensed to practice in South Carolina and has built her career advocating for clients and their rights in divorce, custody, alimony, and family law proceedings throughout the Lowcountry.

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This article is general legal information, not legal advice, and does not create an attorney-client relationship. South Carolina law changes and every case turns on its specific facts. Consult a licensed South Carolina family-law attorney about your situation. (Attorney advertising — SC RPC 7.1.)

Protecting Your Children: Emergency Custody Orders in Charleston

Protecting Your Children: Emergency Custody Orders in Charleston

By Mary Ann Hall, Hall & Means, LLC

When a child faces immediate danger, South Carolina’s Family Court can issue an emergency custody order on an ex parte basis — without advance notice to the other parent — under its broad jurisdiction over child welfare matters in SC Code § 63-3-530. At Hall & Means in Charleston, we help parents move quickly and correctly when waiting for a noticed hearing would put a child at risk.

Read our updated 2026 guide: How to File for Emergency Custody in South Carolina: The Ex Parte Standard, What Judges Require, and What Happens Next — rewritten for the amended Rule 21 of the South Carolina Rules of Family Court, effective October 1, 2025, which now routes ex parte custody requests through Rule 65(b), SCRCP.

What Is an Emergency Custody Order in South Carolina?

An emergency custody order is a temporary ex parte order—meaning it is issued on one party’s motion, without a hearing at which the other parent is present. South Carolina’s Family Court has broad jurisdiction over the custody, care, and welfare of minor children under SC Code § 63-3-530 — that is what lets the court hear the case at all. Whether relief can be granted without first notifying the other parent is a separate question, governed by the court’s procedural rules for emergency and ex parte relief, which require the moving parent to show immediate, credible harm to the child and that advance notice to the other parent would defeat the purpose of the request.

An ex parte emergency order typically does one or more of the following:

Critically, it is temporary. An ex parte order is not a final custody determination. The court will schedule a contested hearing — generally set promptly after entry, with exact timing that depends on the court and the order — at which the other parent has the right to appear and challenge the order. Most temporary relief is decided at a scheduled temporary hearing inside a pending case, not on an emergency motion — our divorce lawyer page for Charleston covers what happens at that hearing.

What Qualifies as an Emergency? The Legal Standard

To obtain an ex parte emergency custody order in Charleston, your affidavit must satisfy two distinct requirements:

  1. Immediate and irreparable injury — the child faces a threat so serious and so imminent that waiting even the few days required to give the other parent notice would cause harm that cannot be undone
  2. Notice is impractical or would defeat the purpose — giving the other parent advance warning would allow them to flee with the child, destroy evidence, or carry out the threatened harm before the court could act

Situations of the kind that may meet this threshold include:

Courts do not grant ex parte orders for:

Filing a frivolous ex parte motion carries real consequences: the judge may sanction you, and the motion itself can damage your credibility in the underlying custody case.

How Does the Emergency Custody Process Work in Charleston?

Step 1 — Gather documentation before you file

The strength of your ex parte motion depends almost entirely on the quality of your affidavit. Before going to the courthouse, gather every piece of documentation you have: police reports, photos of injuries, hospital or pediatric records, text messages or emails containing threats, and any DSS (SCDSS) reports. The affidavit must include specific dates, places, and descriptions of incidents—not conclusions like “the other parent is dangerous” but facts like “on May 8 at approximately 9 PM, the other parent arrived at the house intoxicated and shoved our 6-year-old daughter.”

Step 2 — File at the Charleston County Family Court Clerk

Go to the Family Court Clerk’s Office at 100 Broad Street, Charleston, SC 29401. If there is no existing custody case, file a Summons and a Complaint for Custody along with your Motion for Emergency Temporary Order and a sworn Affidavit of Facts (current official forms are on the sccourts.org Family Court forms index). If a custody order already exists, file a Motion to Modify with an emergency ex parte request. Bring the original and any copies required by the Charleston County Clerk of Court; confirm current copy and filing requirements before you go.

Filing fees apply for new actions — confirm the current amount with the Clerk of Court before you file. If you cannot afford the filing fee, ask the clerk about proceeding in forma pauperis (a fee waiver for those who qualify).

Step 3 — Judicial review of the ex parte packet

Ex parte review is generally handled on the papers: the clerk routes your motion, sworn affidavit, and proposed order to a Family Court judge. Exact procedures and timing vary by county and by judge — some requests are decided on the filing alone, and the court may have questions before ruling. Either way, the strength of the packet — particularly the level of specific, dated detail in the affidavit — is what drives the outcome.

Step 4 — Serve the other parent immediately

An ex parte order should be served on the other parent as quickly as possible, using a method of service permitted by the South Carolina Rules of Civil Procedure — ask the Clerk’s Office about the options and their typical turnaround. Enforcement against the other parent generally depends on that parent having proper notice of the order, so prompt, proper service matters — ask the Clerk’s Office or your attorney about the accepted methods and what counts as adequate notice in your case. If the other parent refuses to comply before service is complete, involve law enforcement and have the officer document the incident while service is being completed.

What Happens After the Emergency Custody Order Is Granted?

The emergency order will include a date for a contested hearing, generally scheduled promptly after the ex parte order is entered — the exact timing depends on the court. At the contested hearing, the other parent appears before the judge and has the right to present evidence and testimony challenging the emergency order. The judge then decides whether to:

Between the ex parte order and the contested hearing, use the time to:

How Long Does an Emergency Custody Order Last?

An ex parte emergency order is temporary by design. It is time-limited by its own terms and the court’s rules governing relief granted without notice — the order itself states its duration and the date for the contested hearing, at which point it is either replaced by a formal temporary order, modified, or dissolved. After the contested hearing, the case proceeds through the standard custody process—discovery, potentially a Guardian ad Litem appointment, and eventually a final order or agreed settlement. An emergency order from the ex parte stage does not automatically become a final custody arrangement; it is a stopgap while the court evaluates the full picture.

Emergency Custody Order vs. an Order of Protection: What Is the Difference?

These are two separate legal tools:

When domestic violence and child safety concerns overlap, the two issues can involve separate legal tracks, and which filings fit your facts is a question for a licensed South Carolina family-law attorney. A Family Court judge handling custody can consider an existing Order of Protection in setting custody terms, and domestic violence is expressly part of the § 63-15-240(B) best-interest analysis. If anyone is in immediate danger, call 911 first.

What If the Emergency Custody Order Is Denied?

Denial of an ex parte motion does not end your options. The judge may deny the emergency order but grant a standard temporary hearing on an expedited basis, where both parties appear and present evidence. If the judge denied the motion because the affidavit lacked specific facts, you can supplement the affidavit with additional documentation and refile. If you believe the denial was an error, consult with an attorney before refiling—a second, poorly supported motion can further undermine your credibility with the court. Either route runs through the same underlying custody case, which our child custody attorney in Charleston page walks through end to end.

Frequently Asked Questions About Emergency Custody Orders in Charleston

Can I get an emergency custody order without a lawyer?

Yes. The Family Court forms index at sccourts.org has the official statewide forms, and the Clerk’s Office can tell you what is available locally — but the motion and affidavit for emergency relief are typically drafted to fit your specific facts rather than filled in from a single standard packet. An attorney can help you organize the evidence, draft an affidavit that squarely addresses the legal standard, and prepare for any questions the court may have — but no attorney can guarantee that emergency relief will be granted. The specific, documented facts in the affidavit drive the decision.

What if the other parent violates the emergency custody order?

If the child is in immediate danger, call 911 and provide law enforcement with a copy of the order. Whether officers can assist on the spot depends on the order’s terms — some emergency orders expressly authorize law-enforcement assistance — and the circumstances. Enforcement otherwise runs through the Family Court: file a Rule to Show Cause to initiate contempt proceedings. If the court finds a willful violation, remedies can include makeup parenting time, attorney’s fees, or civil contempt sanctions up to incarceration. A pattern of violations can also support a separate request to modify custody, but modification requires its own showing — under South Carolina case law (Stutz v. Funderburk; Latimer v. Farmer), the parent seeking the change must first show a substantial change in circumstances affecting the child’s welfare, after which the § 63-15-240(B) best-interest factors apply. It is not an automatic result of the contempt finding.

Will the emergency custody order affect the final custody outcome?

Indirectly, it can. Stability and continuity for the child are part of the statutory best-interest analysis, and an interim arrangement that serves the child well during the case is part of the picture the court sees. The facts you document to support the emergency order also become part of the evidentiary record the judge weighs at the final hearing.

What forms do I need for an emergency custody order in Charleston County?

If no custody case exists: a Summons and a Complaint for Custody, a motion for emergency temporary relief (typically drafted by counsel or written as a motion), and a sworn Affidavit of Facts. If a custody order already exists: a Motion to Modify with an attached Affidavit requesting emergency ex parte relief. The clerk at 100 Broad Street can provide guidance on available forms, and the official Family Court forms index is at sccourts.org.

If domestic violence is a direct factor in your emergency, also read our guide on child custody rights in South Carolina for the broader legal framework governing your case.

Request a Confidential Consultation With a Charleston Family Law Attorney

Every family’s situation is different, and the right next step depends on your facts. If you would like to talk through your situation confidentially and without obligation, call Hall & Means at (843) 377-1341 or inquire online. We will listen first, then explain your options in plain language.

Hall & Means, LLC serves clients in Charleston and the South Carolina Lowcountry, including Charleston County in the 9th Judicial Circuit and neighboring Dorchester County in the 1st Judicial Circuit. The legal framework discussed here applies statewide in South Carolina.


About the Author

Mary Ann Hall is a founding partner at Hall & Means, LLC with more than 20 years of family-law experience. She is licensed to practice in South Carolina and has built her career advocating for clients and their rights in divorce, custody, alimony, and family law proceedings throughout the Lowcountry.

Read Mary Ann’s full bio →  |  Request a Confidential Consultation


This article is general legal information, not legal advice, and does not create an attorney-client relationship. South Carolina law changes and every case turns on its specific facts. Consult a licensed South Carolina family-law attorney about your situation. (Attorney advertising — SC RPC 7.1.)

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